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Tuesday, 23 March 2021

Attacks In Single Sex Spaces: Stand up for yourself, but not too much

Before the links to cases where our fears have been realised, I'd like to illustrate the problem. The question being: 

How can we teach our children to defend themselves & listen to their gut instinct, if we are constantly shaming those uncomfortable with males in female spaces?


THIS IS A LIST OF MALES COMMITTING OFFENCES AGAINST WOMEN AND GIRLS IN SINGLE SEX SPACES. THIS INCLUDES TRANSWOMEN' & REPORTED MEN. YOU MAY NOTICE A THEME


🧵The X/Twitter account Save Female-Only Spaces has a thread, here, which; "highlights males committing criminal acts in female-only spaces, from public restrooms to changing rooms, along with unisex and public areas. The material is censored but user discretion is still advised!"



⬆️Man in dress and erection shows no shame

🚩In other parts of the world, the danger is not mocked -
"Communal toilet facilities in Kenya's vast urban slums leave many women living under the constant threat of sexual violence, according to an Amnesty International report.

Only 24% of slum residents have toilet facilities... putting them at greater risk of attack.

"Women "need more privacy than men when going to the toilet and the inaccessibility of facilities make women more vulnerable to rape" Godfrey Odongo, Amnesty International's East Africa researcher."

Amina, 19, "I always underestimated the threat of violence.
"I would go to the latrine any time ... until about two months ago when I almost became a victim of rape."
Four men hit her, stripped her and were about to rape her when people nearby heard her screams and intervened.
"Amnesty interviewed 130 women in Kenyan slums...
Director of the gender violence recovery trust at the Nairobi women's hospital: "On a daily basis we get 30 cases in our centre ... I believe the numbers are becoming overwhelming.""


Still, the narrative is we are hysterical, stupid and mean 
Time magazine supports the erosion of all female only spaces



Jacob Guerrero 
filmed an 11yr old girl undress and loitered around women's toilets and changing rooms with spy cameras in his shoes 


🚩Ian Bullock ⬆️ claimed to be trans in a series of incidents where he entered women's bathrooms, culminating in a serious sexual assault  


Women Speak About Losing Pregnancies - Having Miscarriages - In Public Toilets. 

The Response -



The Circular Reasoning of "Transwoman Need To Use Women's Spaces"


🚩Kurtis Mawson is another - claimed trans identity when caught masturbating women's toilets. Also sexually assaulted woman 



'We just want to pee' 

Or was it to teach us a lesson?
This is the philosophy of invasion
This is colonialism, with the oppressor cast as victim

Grotty invader Kell

🚩Human rights complaint over woman forced to share hostel room with male 

🚩⬇️Katie Dolatowski - filmed one child over a cubicle as she went to the toilet, then followed a ten year old girl into the (female) public toilet at a Morrisons' store in Fife. He accosted the girl, forcing her into a cubicle at knifepoint, and told her he would murder her mother if she screamed. He forced her trousers down and sexually assaulted her. This heroic little girl then screamed and escaped.
After Dolatowski was arrested he was bailed to a women's hostel. Following, he lied about his identity to live in a domestic violence refuge



🚩 Pierre John Parsons - via the excellent Reduxx - "now identifies as a “woman,” was jailed for three years and 11 months in 1995 for abducting and raping a 12-year-old girl. 

"...Parsons tied a rope around the girl’s neck after entering the restrooms of a sporting facility. 

"He then dragged the child down a hallway into a changing room where he undressed and raped her while she was unconscious. 

He later admitted stealing the child's clothing "for erotic crossdressing purposes."
Pierre John Parsons  - transwoman / depraved Timmy Mallet  

In jail, he "admitted to molesting a 4-year-old child and raping a disabled teenager."

Parsons has been found constantly breaching his release conditions with contact offences and child abuse images - sometimes specifically seeking out toddlers abused by adults.




⚠️Remember the WiSpa debacle, when all of the trendy left's media swore an innocent transwoman had been cruelly targeted?
Well, Darren Merager has quite the criminal history (official court docs here)




"Mark Lazarus waited outside a public toiley more than hour until someone wearing a skirt went in.

"He followed a 71-year-old into the toilets and went into a cubicle to change into skirt and tights himself, before pouncing on the woman as she washed her hands."



🚩Decatur, Georgia 



🚩Greece Arcadia, NY

🚩Coventry, England "The girl's mother, Gemma Brennan, told CoventryLive that her daughter had to be taken to hospital... a teenage boy had kicked the toilet cubicle door open to take photographs of her daughter... leaving her with marks on her arm and a large cut on her forehead.
Photo Credit: CoventryLive

 “It is an ongoing problem at that school, there are unisex toilets so girls and boys have to share and the boys go in and take photos of the girls, kick the doors down and going over the cubicles to take photos and videos which is a massive concern,” Brennan explained. Via Reduxx 

"Amid hotly disputed claims that a transgender student sexually assaulted a girl in women's restroom ..

and another incident where a girl claimed she was groped in school restroom by a transgender girl, Brevard Public Schools is braced for new potential regulations.".

🚩 New Mexico- 

🚩8 year old girl choked unconscious in bathroom sex attack - 

This story amused 3 out of five fellow commentors on PinkNews 


Threatened to carry out mass murder in school (in name of trans rights) BUT ALSO: wrote online of plans to sexually assault girls in bathrooms. 
'Alexia'
Warning: GRAPHIC 

“I guarantee I’ll be in the bathroom r*ping your Christian daughters and there ain’t nothing you f*ggots can do about it. You hear me?” 

“I’m in the bathroom feeling your little girls’ p*ssies. I love feeling on your little girls’ p*ssies. You can’t do nothing about it. I don’t care. I’m openly a pedophile. You guys can’t do nothing about us. You can cry. Put me on national television, I don’t care”.

“I do what the fuck I wanna do you little fucking c*nt. You little nasty fucking b*tch. You little nasty fucking b*tch” 

“Look how nasty you are. Look at you. We’re fucking your children and killing them. We’re fucking them and hurting them and killing them and you faggots can’t do nothing about us.”

.
🚩 Criminal records show women are prudent to not want men in their bathrooms- Various incidents, covered by James Shupe, detransitioned transwoman 

🚩Nine women have sued the Poverello House, one of the largest service providers for homeless people in the Fresno area, for allegedly allowing a transgender resident to sexually harass them during their stay at the nonprofit’s women’s shelter. 

🚩Karen White was a convicted sex offender, who had raped women and children.

White was imprisoned after stabbing an elderly neighbour and put into the women's estate on the basis of hmis claims to be transgender. Despite what some have argued, he had claimed this for some time. In jail he sexually assualted three women.
See more cases in Prison & Same Sex Spaces

There is much more in regard to UK prisons. Please see the excellent Keep Prisons Single sex


🚩Sean Ojeda⬆️ sexually assaulted a teen in a bathroom 


🚩'Michelle' Martinez⬆️ -
Although the ironically named Reason magazine decided that there's no point getting excited about it - having laws to punish sex cases after the fact is all that's required 

Because Social Norms Which Allow a Protective, Self Policing Safe Space Are Not Permitted 

They JUST WANT TO PEEE!

🤢🤢 It's not always clear what was seen, though - sometimes it's decided that witnesses, if female, imagine things...😬😭
Darren 'Rachel' Glines was completely butt - and bollock - naked in the women's showers, while children were present, but claimed his apron of gut maintained his modesty


🚩Usual Suspects🚩

🚩Planet Fitness

“It’s a man but he says he identifies as a woman, and he won’t leave the restroom,” the woman told the police dispatcher. “But he is just walking around showing us his — and he won’t leave.”

Dispatcher - “And what’s he wearing?” 

Woman - “Nothing, literally nothing,” 

D - “OK, so he is completely naked?” 

W - “He is completely naked,” the caller said.

D - “And is that man still there?” 

W - “Yeah, he is still in the bathroom” 


🚩Planet Fitness JaKorbie Dixon

Silva, who PF banned - "photographed a male using the women's locker room. ... he "told her he was "queer."

"Silva, in a video posted to Facebook, said there was "a little girl sitting in the corner. She could have been [12 years old] … in a towel kind of freaked out.""


Paul Ray 'Paula' Witherspoon had the audacity to complain his walking into a women's hospital bathroom with a tag on his ankle, having previously sexually abused a little girl. He was defended by liberal media. 


Women's Refuges / Shelters (generally considered as sensitive and almost sacrosanct to decent people)



"Green pleaded guilty to sexual assault and two counts of breaching probation.

“you heard [the victim impact statement] that in a place of safety …. there was a violation of herself there and a violation of what the shelter stands for. It’s a place where people escape from severe traumas in their lives,” Crown Attorney Ellaree Metz told the court.


🚩Cody D’Entremont 'Desiree Anderson'
  "Trans woman crawled into bed with, assaulted female resident at women's shelter: Police in Windsor, Ontario, told a local outlet that the suspect should be referred to as a woman"

🚩This man, Christopher 'Jessica' Hambrook, sexually assaulted four, girls and women,  fleeing domestic violence after gaining entry on basis of his 'gender identity'
"A convicted sexual predator - Christopher Hambrook — who claimed to be a transgender woman named Jessica — has attacked four vulnerable females between the ages of five and 53 in Montreal and Toronto over the past 12 years.


Sarah Summers' Experience
🚩"Chloe Dove, formerly known as Trevor Parnham, had police called on him by staff at St. Patrick’s Night Hostel in Brighton and Hove after ... sexually abusive language and behaviour.
"A female case worker told the court that Dove had asked her to inspect his genitals for health reasons – later admitting he had actually requested the inspection for his own sexual gratification.

"Dove, 48, frequently made sexual comments towards the woman, and once claimed to be suicidal so she would agree to meet with him just to begin discussing his sexual preferences."


🚩Shawn Thomas Hallett


FOR transwomen, using spaces with men is LIFE THREATENING. For actual women, don't be ridiculous 

"The following morning, he is believed to have used an iron bar to bludgeon a 40-year-old Hungarian-born woman. He then placed clothing and two mattresses on top of the victim and lit the pile on fire, the homicide commission determined during initial investigations."





A good reply to the above, oft-repeated cliche is...


🚩Rikers Jail

Jails are an incredibly sensitive environment, and attacks are increasing steadily over the Atlantic.  I could never include them all:

Demi Minor, subject to this obsequious deep-cringe here

Break Point: "According to Amie Ichikawa, a former inmate, the experience was “the most helpless feeling"   

"I would call home every day crying for weeks, trying to explain to my family that there was a serial rapist housed here... [My family] thought I was delusional. … And that just adds to the helplessness, the feeling of utter vulnerability."

🚩Janiah Monroe "despite being convicted of attempted murder, aggravated battery, and strangling a previous cellmate. Within two months, Monroe was accused of raping multiple female prisoners." 
Janiah Monroe 

🚩"Madilyn Harks, previously Matthew Harks, is a serial sex offender. 
"Despite a psychiatric assessment that determined Harks possessed an “all-encompassing preoccupation in sexually abusing young girls,” he was sent to a women’s halfway house and prison" 
The women's jail had a nursery where mothers could live with their children. Harks repeatedly loitered in the area.
Here, Genevieve Gluck discusses the abuse Harks visits upon the inmates - and their children - with former inmate and activist Heather Mason 


🚩Tremaine Carroll allegedly raped a woman after identifying as a woman 


⬇️ The "your problem is with predatory men, not transwomen" argument. A classic of the genre. 

But what is more patriarchal than insisting women women cannot congregate outside of the male gaze?


🚩Loudoun county, Virginia
Trans identifying male, 15, with history of worrying sexualised behaviour, seriously sexually assaults fellow female student, 15, in bathroom. School cover it up.

"The girl was “in hospital for two weeks for physical, mental, and emotional trauma she suffered.” 

"She was bullied and harassed by other students, and a judge granted a two-year protective order forbidding contact from one student “who threatened her with death,” 

"the perpetrator was moved to a different school, where he assaulted a second female student months later."

"The fight came as students said the transgender female had a history of showing her genitals in the bathrooms and locker rooms"

🚩Oklahoma "Edmond parent files lawsuit after daughter 'severely beaten' in bathroom by trans student"

🚩Wisconsin 

🚩Przemyslaw Jakubowski, a transvestite, raped a woman in women's toilet. During her testimony, while in court, he masturbated


“A patient who was raped by a transgender woman on a hospital ward could not have been raped because her attacker is defined as a woman”, heard the House of Lords.

Police were told by hospital staff that the reported incident was not true, telling officers: “There was no male in the hospital, therefore the rape could not have happened.”’

🚩"NHS chiefs facing landmark legal action after 26 female hospital nurses protested about being forced to share a women's changing room with a transgender colleague who is biologically male" - he is also not surgically altered. 

"...the female changing room is open plan and has no separate changing cubicles."

... the transgender nurse had taken a 'keen interest' in female staff when they were getting undressed.

"They found the situation 'intimidating and upsetting'.

"... the trans nurse admitted to trying for a baby with a female partner and had stopped taking female hormones.

One nurse was 'close to tears'..: "I was rummaging in my bag trying to find my lanyard ... when a man's voice behind me said, 'Are you not getting changed yet?'  He asked again to whether she was to change.

"The woman, who was sexually abused as a child, has posttraumatic stress disorder and struggles to be alone around men. 

'He stood there, two metres away from me, with a scrub top on and with tight black boxer shorts with holes in them and asked a third time whether I was getting changed yet."


🚩Gary Twiselton "32, incited children as young as nine to perform indecent acts" as well as installing hidden cameras in a variety of toilets
He filmed children as young as four.

"Twiselton had 14,488 indecent images of children - including 1,317 of the most serious category." 
He also filmed himself ejaculating into a woman's drink, serving it and watching her drink it."


🚩"Patrick Hagan goes by "Patty" and wears pantyhose and a skirt. But the 6-foot-3, 280-pound Hagan's punch packed enough of a wallop to knock loose five of Cheryl Partsch's teeth in a dispute over whether Hagan belonged in the women's restroom at a Pasco County nightclub."


Classic TRA abuse & mockery 

🚩 "A man dressed as a woman was arrested after police say he was caught peeping into restroom stalls three times in the past year.

Richard Rodriguez, 30, filmed a woman in a bathroom stall. A 35-year-old woman was in the stall when she saw a bag moved toward her under the stall divider. Rodriguez apparently had been filming her, police said"


🚩Jason Pomare ⬇️ Disguised himself s a woman 

🚩Man in drag arrested for voyeuristic filming in women's toilet ⬇️ "Police in Toyohashi, Aichi Prefecture, have arrested a 26-year-old man on suspicion of lewd conduct after he dressed in drag and wore a wig to secretly film women in a public toilet."

Haunted deer hound Herbert uses a disabled bathroom to penetrate himself


The idiot Liana Kerzner:


🚩A five-year-old girl allegedly raped in a public toilet by a 35-year-old man hid the horrific ordeal from her father until he saw bite marks on her body, it has been reported

"NEW YORK -- Two boys ages 10 and 15 were charged with rape for allegedly dragging a 7-year-old girl into the boy's bathroom at an overcrowded Brooklyn grade school and attacking her, police said."


🚩Man enters and undresses in women's changing rooms, initially refusing to leave. But, what if he identifies as a woman? Who can know? Is this a pervert or one of the most vulnerable people in society?


🚩Bearded man walks naked around swimming pool changing room, frightening small girl. Due to bill C16, the lifeguard can only ask if they 'identify as female?' Man says yes. 
Girl never returns to pool.

Here's J, with something he just made up 

The three males, 19-year-old Sylvanus Lanier, and two 17-year-olds Marco Garcia and Elijah Willis, have been accused of raping a mentally challenged classmate"


⬆️Man arrested for sexual assault on minor in grocery store bathroom 

Rancid death mask of Montgomerie Burns, ey lah it's Josh Prior

🚩Meanwhile, Robert Prior was hiding spy cams in changing rooms to add to his paedophilic library:
"had downloaded 17 child abuse images to various devices and would message other paedophiles in forums gloating about his actions."


🚩A man dressed as a woman spotted peeping and photographing women in a UC Berkeley locker room.

On explaining how trauma from sexual abuse had impacted me, Alexander here had a suggestion:

🚩An Oak Harbor, Sean G. Kelley, 22, was arrested for allegedly masturbating while looking at a girl in the Walmart women’s bathroom, according to a police report. 


🚩 crossdressing suspect arrested for raping woman

Man wanks in women's changing room ⬇️

🚩'Sasha' David Yates
"What is the Sasha Yates controversy about? All you need to know about the transgender tennis coach whose actions angered Martina Navratilova"
🚩"recently rehired by her school despite being accused of inappropriate behavior in front of minors." Rehired.
(Apparently there were no other applicants)
The incidents revolved around several accusations by a number of girls that Yates was loitering in the changing room when the girls changed.This included stripping down to his pants while the whole team changed, and targeting a lone girl in the showers to 'start a conversation'
🚩 Rodney Kenneth Peterson.

 "Authorities allege Petersen went to Loma Linda University and tried to enter several “students only” areas at a female dormitory. After staff members confronted him, officials say Peterson left the building and headed toward a parking lot, where he was met by security

Petersen managed to get inside his vehicle, authorities said, and allegedly struck a security guard while driving away"

📎L.A. Times

Fuck off, Randall

🚩Ten year old girl sexually assaulted by man in Denny's bathroom 


No jail for hairdresser who pulled clumps of hair in attack on homeless woman

🚩"Shauna Kavanagh got a three-month sentence, suspended as long as she kept the peace and did not re-offend for two years" Shauna  Kavanagh is an extremely violent man who beat and 'tore clumps of hair' out of woman's head in hostel, after raciallytargeteing her




🚩Daniel Chadwick Jones "Police officers found nearly 40 clips of video footage on a mobile phone seized from Daniel Anthony Chadwick-Jones after staff at the club became suspicious of his behaviour in the room" He targeted young gymnasts 




And, we - often victims of multiple sexual assaults - are subjected to this vile,
spiteful bullshit

🚩Michael Al Omran "Al Omran, of Carlisle Road, Hove, was previously found guilty of voyeurism when he repeatedly stared at a showering woman at a leisure centre in 2015"

Michael Reid
Michael Reid

🚩"A MAN has been jailed after he was caught pleasuring himself inside the changing room of a leisure centre. 

Michael Reid was arrested after he was seen masturbating by a woman at Padiham Leisure Centre.

Preston Crown Court heard how a 10-year-old girl was stood close by as he carried out the act"

🚩Andrew Hutchison admitted to raping drugged patients in his work as a nurse "sexual predator used a specialist throat camera to look up the skirt of a visitor as she stood at the bedside of a sick relative, and even filmed young girls getting changed at a swimming pool"

🚩Sick predator Damien Smith has today (Friday, April 8) been jailed
"A sick predator who raped a teenage girl, subjected a young man to a violent sexual assault, and kept footage of children using a bathroom has today (Fri) been jailed for more than ten years. Bradford man Damien Smith, 35, will now have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life and will also be subject to an indefinite sexual harm prevention order"


🚩Anthony Dines "Dines, 31, installed the covert video camera on a ceiling grate inside the disabled toilet at the coffee shop near MI5 headquarters in Vauxhall... He was arrested in front of law firm colleagues with a bag full of ladies underwear, after an appeal was put out my police showing his image when he unwittingly filmed himself installing the Starbucks camera."


🚩 University Police Department issued a warning Wednesday of a reported “Peeping Tom” at about 3 p.m in the fourth floor of Kellogg Library



    ⬆️ This is a very popular porn genre ⬆️

🚩"A woman was attacked and almost sexually assaulted by a suspect who was hiding in a Downtown Plymouth bathroom.

"Police said the suspect went into the women's bathroom ... He hid in a stall for about 20 minutes before a woman came into the bathroom and went into an unlocked stall around 7 p.m."


🚩 Lancaster mum with fear of men, locked in psychiatric ward with transgender patient - she had psychosis, and a delusion men were conspiring to murder her. This so intense, she was petrified of her husband. But under section, liberty removed, a transwoman walked around the ward all day in a dressing gown which was too short. 








Rebecca has some unfortunate realisation just around the corner, if he's capable of processing unwanted information without turning it into a tirade against women ⬇️

As is Helen Belcher 
And this moron



🚩"A child sex offender who attacked an eight-year-old girl in a public toilet claims it was a 'cry for help' because he was lonely.

Beau Jeffrey Seeby, 24, fronted the Adelaide District Court on Monday where he pleaded guilty to one count of aggravated indecent assault for his attack on the little girl in South Australia's Riverland region last year"


🚩Graeme Croucher "A voyeur has been jailed for spying on a naked 14-year-old girl as she got changed at a seaside holiday camp"


🚩 "Kevin Banks, 37, was identified as taking photos of a minor female, who is now 18, in a dressing room at Target. He reportedly left the store through the shopping cart doorway, took off his shirt and placed it over his vehicle’s license plate"

Not cursed E is also known as Kirsty Slater (twitter handle reading 'not Kirsty,' reddit?)  But for the f work he gets he is known as Gemma Stone, a journalist. He has been published by the Independent:

 

"A "deviant" voyeur secretly filmed a woman trying on a dress in a supermarket changing room - but was caught when her nine-year-old daughter saw what was happening.

The young girl screamed: "Somebody is filming my mummy" and security staff were alerted, a court heard."

🚩https://archive.is/zz3Zp "Sunday evening the Mountain Home Police Department received a call of a male employee at a local clothing store taking pictures of a female customer while she was in a dressing room"

✅Reminder - your safety is not only irrelevant, but worthy of contempt

🚩 "During the incident, the man forced the child into a restroom and sexually assaulted them.

Before taking off, police said the man threatened the victim with a knife and told the child not to tell anyone about the incident or he would kill their family"

🚩Darren Johnston  "A man has been convicted of voyeurism offences which he committed over a period of 12 years.

Darren Johnson, 51, of Manor Fields, Putney, pleaded guilty on Wednesday, July 18 at Kingston Crown Court to five counts of voyeurism including counts against two 14-year-old girls"

🚩"Police are asking for the public's help to identify a man accused of sexually assaulting a child in Georgina. According to investigators with the York Regional Police Special Victims Unit, a man inappropriately touched a 10-year-old boy in a public washroom at a ski resort on Civic Centre Road on Sunday afternoon"


🚩‘I’m Terrified’: Teen Texts Mom for Help Over NJ Bookstore Bathroom Terror

🚩ZIONSVILLE, Ind. (WISH) – A Marion County man has been charged after videotaping an employee in the restroom. According to court documents, 55-year-old Raymond Bridges faces two charges of voyeurism using a camera, both level six felonies, after taping a female employee while changing.

🚩man-admits-sexually-assaulting-patient-17-in-hospital-ward-1.4084111

🚩 A Sussex United Church minister has been given a nine-month conditional sentence, including six months of house arrest, for secretly videotaping a naked woman. The victim cried as she described being "humiliated" and violated

🚩Girl, 9, catches man filming her mum as she tried on dress in changing room at Sainsbury’s

🚩Gregory Hanson "A NEWTOWN man set up a camera in a changing room to secretly record over 150 videos for sexual gratification, with at least one of the victims being under 18, a court heard.

Gregory Hanson, 25, was also found to be in possession of 37,500 incident images of children"


🚩boys stormed girls bathroom in protest, girl expelled for kneeing one in crotch


🚩Colleen Francis

"Citing state nondiscrimination law, officials at The Evergreen State College in Olympia, Washington are standing by their decision to let a 45-year-old student with a penis use the women’s locker room, and walk naked in front of girls as young as six."

A "17-year-old girl saw Colleen Francis au naturel inside the women’s locker room, reports KOMO-TV

A coach from a different youth team, Tiffany Wright, also filed a police report, according to the Daily Mail, after observing Francis “sitting with her legs open with her male genitalia showing” in the women’s sauna, then telling Francis to leave.

“This is not 1959 Alabama,” Francis pronounced. “We don’t call the police for drinking from the wrong water fountain.”


🚩 GUELPH—[A man] secretly video recorded supermarket shoppers and staff using a washroom, Guelph's Ontario Court was told Friday.

Aaron M. Larkin, 31, is to be sentenced on this voyeurism conviction, as well as 11 sexual assault, child pornography and other voyeurism charges to which he pleaded guilty

🚩McDonald’s toilet voyeur jailed for Cambridge sex assault

🚩Swedish man performs sex act in women's monthly LGBTQ steam room session 

"Women of Quality do not fear Equality" - get to fuck, twats

🚩pervert Stewart O'Gorman admits flashing and spying on women 



🚩Teen peeping victim spreads message of vigilance after changing room incident

🚩Pervert filmed 22 women and girls getting changed at Darwen Leisure Centre


🚩Woman says man took photos of her in Target fitting room

🚩Yorkshire man jailed for filming teen girls as they got undressed in changing rooms and bathrooms

🚩 Police in South Windsor are searching for a man they said took pictures underneath dressing room doors at a local Target store.


🚩Man jailed for filming woman in changing rooms 

🚩 Levon Anderson recorded the women by holding his mobile phone close to the floor as they used an adjoining cubicle

🚩Man Dressed as Woman Arrested for Spying Into Mall Bathroom Stall 

🚩Transgender woman’s behaviour in changeroom unacceptable

🚩A story you won't see PinkNews cover again man-abuses-trans-rules-to-strip-in-womans-bathroom/

🚩man-arrested-accused-of-recording-women-in-dressing-room-at-woodland-hills-mall/883571103

🚩Tony Downes⬆️

🚩"A man who secretly tried to film a teenager as part of a campaign of voyeurism at toilets in a Belfast shopping centre has avoided prison.

Simone Borgosano, 25, was given probation and made subject to a Sexual Offences Prevention Order (SOPO) for targeting unsuspecting members of the public, including a youth wearing a school uniform"

🚩Raymond Finlay "Finlay, 75, from Stirling, admitted placing a camcorder device within a unisex toilet and recording a number of people using the toilet"


🚩 A Mississauga doctor has been charged with voyeurism after colleagues complained about a camera placed in an employee washroom, Peel regional police say

🚩A PONTYATES MAN who filmed women in the changing rooms of Carmarthen Leisure Centre

Christopher Moore, 42, of Heol Wepner, pleaded guilty to nine counts of voyeurism and attempted voyeurism between January 2009 and May 2015.


🚩"A CHARITY shop assistant who covertly filmed customers for his sexual gratification has been jailed.

For months voyeur Christopher Adam Robinson, 35, secretly put his mobile phone in the shop’s changing room where it could film others without them knowing"

🚩https://www.nationalreview.com/2018/08/anti-discrimination-laws-used-against-battered-women-shelter/

🚩BC women file lawsuit over former boss who recorded them in workplace toilets "Matthew Schwabe is accused of hiding a camera in the women's washroom at Mattick's Red Barn Market in Saanich on Vancouver Island, then uploading photos to a Russian "revenge porn" website"


🚩 A man in the women's bathroom at Disneyland 

🚩 Woman assaulted by a man in club toilets 

🚩"A POLICE employee from Lancashire has today been sentenced for voyeurism in the workplace after secretly filming colleagues on the toilet" Jean Renoir Janga

🚩University alters bathroom policy after two reports of voyeurism

🚩https://www.thejournal.ie/ms-public-sex-acts-charged-court-5499883-Jul2021/?amp=1&__twitter_impression=true 

American prisons welcome self identifying trans women

🚩"After Haben Mihretab’s last voyeurism conviction in 2019, Lancashire Constabulary successfully applied for an indefinite sexual harm prevention order (SHPO), which prohibits him from entering any female public toilets"

🚩"A voyeur filmed women on the toilet and in a state of undress without their knowledge for his own sexual gratification.

Keir Hazlehurst, 33, used both his phone and a spy camera positioned in a way that his unwitting victims were unable to tell they were being filmed"

🚩"Hospital chiefs say they have been working closely with police after a man was charged with filming a woman in its toilets, and then attempting to blackmail her on social media into paying £1,000"

Piotr Prasalek, 34, Bury St Edmunds was charged with voyeurism offences, including recording a person in a private act for sexual gratification and making an unwarranted demand with menaces. 


🚩"A man who secretly filmed people as they were using the toilet has been jailed.

Matthew Thomas was sentenced to 32 months in prison.

The 39-year-old pleaded guilty to voyeurism, recording images of children, three counts of taking indecent images of children, three counts of making indecent images and two counts of possession of extreme pornography"

🚩 - https://thepostmillennial.com/biological-men-transferred-to-womens-prisons-allegedly-rape-and-assault-inmates

🚩"The deputy head teacher of a Cardiff secondary school has admitted hiding a camera to film five children using a toilet.

Gareth Williams, 47, from the Welsh medium school Ysgol Glantaf, pleaded guilty to three charges of voyeurism, which did not take place at the school"


🚩Mark McClure "Bangor doctor jailed after secret toilet recordings. Co Down man took videos of people using bathroom at his house and clinic"

🚩"JACKSONVILLE, Fla. – The arrest of a transient accused of sexually  in the Campus of Florida State College at Jacksonville has raised questions about security and safety in public restrooms. The concerns come after the Jacksonville Sheriff's Office said Marvin Lee Haugabrook, 61, was arrested Thursday on a charge of sexual battery in the Feb. 20 assault of a 15-year-old boy"

🚩"The 12-year-old girl went to the cheap toilet. There was no one else around. Allegedly, a young man from the area used that opportunity. He followed the minor into the toilet. Allegedly sexually abused the girl"


🚩Ryan Funk sexually assaulted a child in a public bathroom 

There are many, many cases of trans indentifying males abusing women's designated spaces, as we see here with Tyler Porter, who enjoys himself in the bathroom of a women's refuge

See Tyler being defended by the charity which runs the supposed safe space for women

🚩 Sex offender in women's refuge project

Tarah Jo Morgan is a dangerous paedophile. His birth name is Thomas Maddock, and despite having a long history of sexual violence against girls was "involved with an organization that provides rehabilitation services and support for women survivors of domestic violence.

The Don’t Look Back Center (TDLBC) claims to “[empower] women and trans women with life skills to rebuild her life from the grip of addiction, trauma, and domestic violence.”

TDLBC also operates a shelter called the House of RAHAB, a “transitional living home for women and trans women," as well as a Trans Outreach Program which focuses on "promoting safer sex practices providing condoms [and] lube," as well as free HIV testing.

UPDATE 5/2/2022: Reduxx has become aware that a member of the local Sheriff's Department, Melanie Pitkin, serves on the Board of Directors of The Don't Look Back Center, which employed Maddock after he had been previously convicted for several offenses, including child sexual assault" via Reduxx


 
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Monday, 22 March 2021

Liberal Femicide & the theatric J'accuse


This week I had a friend do a very public, performative call out on my apparent bigotry. The seriousness of the allegations made against me with vagueness and blustering are an interesting tactic I've seen before.

WITH EVERYONE I ARGUE WITH ABOUT THIS, THERE'S A DESPERATE BID TO SILENCE ME. YOU NEED ME TO SHUT UP, IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MANY FALLACIES YOU'RE SHOWN TO RELY ON WHILE TRYING TO 'WIN', YOU MUST BE RIGHT AND I MUST BE WRONG. "JUST STOP!" YOU SCREAM WHILE CALLING YOURSELF THE RATIONAL AND KIND ONE.

We were friends. You, I thought, had a good idea of who I am, what I care about and how I treat people. But then you saw another, strawman me, and you had to condemn it. Strangest of all was, somehow it was inevitable this would happen.

I wasnt using slurs, I never have. I didn't target anyone, I wasn't displaying apathy or contempt for other people's lives and dignity. It's inexplicable, to me, this can skew your opinion of me 180°, turning your every estimation of me on its head.

This isn't an aberration on my part, though, is it? You are the changed person here. It's like you lost all recourse to critical thought.

You developed blocks to deflect my words, with prefabricated, pre-emptive strikes at the ready, as if bulldozing over points I'd made before would leave me with nothing but surrender. You ranted in abstract with fury, supposedly directed at no one, while clearly intended for me. The furious words you spat came out screaming, and then at the last-minute they swerved, turning into oblique hits or even a form of threat.  

Until I asked you, where then you began claiming I had it wrong. I was paranoid. I felt pretty resigned to what was coming.

Ultimately, like others before, you hermetically sealed yourself off to everything I said, determined to view it as something it is not.

For someone who burst into my comments months ago, unleashing polemics that were built of total misconceptions and myths, which were proven wrong - I guess it's obvious you couldn't challenge what I was actually saying.

I never met you with the anger you directed at me - I told you I was happy to talk now or later, online or in private. I wasn't accusatory. I wasn't smug once you eventually conceded you'd been unfair or got stuff wrong. I never brought the argument to your posts, which often covered the same issue.

There was so much venom, so many cumbersome tropes, all weilded like battering rams to smash these bad, bad thoughts of mine into smithereens. 

I explained they were wrong. I gave you reliable sources. No, trans people are not murdered at a disproportionate rate, and no I'm not saying GRS should be banned. Puberty blockers are not 'entirely reversible', they do have serious side effects. Yes, men absolutely have abused trans inclusivity to victimise women and girls, and that is a fucking problem. Or isn't it?

I said I was glad you were sticking around, even though, if this had happened in any other context I can think of, I'd have fully, angrily defended myself. I did this hoping you might see where I was coming from, because I know this shit is everywhere, because I know it takes time and courage to question the 'un-debatable'. And you knew enough about me to know I'm not a rabid, hate-powered fanatic. Surely, you knew that? 

Maybe you believed this was a huge flaw in my otherwise agreeable politics, that I'd fallen victim to online misinformation. I don't understand how we remained friends if that isn't the case.

On that post all those months ago, two trans people stepped in to defend me - but that wasn't good enough - it still must be hate. These are the trans people you can ignore. These people are brainwashed, and, obviously as my friends they must be handpicked as the atypical self-haters they are. Victims of Stockholm syndrome, manipulated chumps. And it's completely unproblematic for you to say so - although if I'm ever heard questioning affirmation and pubertal suppression for a 10 yr old somewhere, that is deeply offensive. How dare I suggest I know them better than they do? 

No amount of care on anyone's part to calmly articulate the problems of any trashy trope, shit argument, lie - none was ever going to meet that gold standard of 'acceptance' which you demand but never extend. 

Everything I and anyone else defending me has to say must be framed as a consequence of hate or misinformation, regardless of how every source, every tactic you have of dismissing me is shown to be one-sided, unsubstantiated, full of holes, wrong. It's like arguing that a turd on the pavement is shit and not chocolate, only to realise the people claiming chocolate are copraphagiac and have ingested all the evidence.

It's revolting, and maybe malicious to make them acknowledge their mistake. Call them some help, but don't humiliate them. Leave whatever pride they have intact.

I tried to leave your pride intact. 

You went quiet for a while, you didn't raise it again, or at least not directly. We spoke on other things and you recently saw me challenge someone who was genuinely bigoted and making wild generalisations about the actions and beliefs of you and people like you. I didn't go nuts at them, I countered what they said - like adults are supposed to. The reticence you displayed in putting those little like and love emojis on my comments should have given me warning you were drifting away. It was definitely out of character.

Over the last few months I've been involved in multiple spats online that have escalated to the point I've been very upset. In one I had told a man that he was in fact wrong, and unisex facilities were more dangerous for women and girls than single sex ones. Afterwards I received an unhinged series of private messages from a trans woman who threatened to smash my face 'into the kerb until it's nothing' and rape me (despite finding me physically repulsive, apparently).

I'd never spoken to this person and, after finding out they had previously stalked a woman (and posted hundreds of rants on social media about her, naming her, obsessing on what they percieved as flirting) I made a police report. It was deranged, detailed and totally unsolicited.

You saw these messages, and you saw what had started it, but didn't respond. You just ignored it entirely. 

After another argument I posted screenshots of the typical behaviour that you yourself have just displayed. A long conversation with a group of men and their support females had been marked with relentless strawmanning and insults. Men, and sadly some women, who's idea of feminism is comprised in entirety by 'my body, my choice' and some bastardised, shallow chant about 'equality', delighting in the freedom they had to unleash harassment on women.

It was a post about the inclusion of trans women in sensitive, same-sex spaces like prisons and refuges - something I objectively know more about than you do, being I have lived it. As much as you claim solidarity with the vulnerable, and you have minority status that undoubtedly negatively effects your life, you were well brought up by loving family, accessed higher education, have never been homeless or left without any family support. You don't understand how life works in these places, and it shows. It jumps out in flashing neon lights.

At the start I had spoken to a trans woman who was scared of male spaces and I had sympathised and agreed she shouldn't be in a men's prison if convicted tomorrow, and of course trans people need refuges. We actually achieved that rare thing of finding some common ground and amity. I was grateful to be reminded of her feelings, and the reality of, her vulnerability, she seemed more thoughtful too. After this, the swivel-eyed mob launched an attack, and myself and two other women were called bitches, bigots, told we were hysterical and twisted, right-wing, fascist and vile. 

After the abuse, the sexist jibes and deliberate distortion, I was told my comments had been threatening and transphobic. I knew that wasn't true, of course, so I asked the man accusing me to show me an example of my abusive behaviour. He called me a 'dumb bitch' and suggested I'd make better use of my time by beating up black kids*.

I kept asking, he got more offensive. He spent hundreds of words telling me how I was bitter and angry because I'm a jealous harridan and no one will fuck me. He seemed to have limitless time and fury to vent about how he had found me out and exposed my disgusting ethics - but no example of my supposedly cruel, insulting comments emerged. That's because it didn't exist. I might be combative and gobby, but I'm careful and I'm not transphobic. 

But there's no trick a TERF won't pull, and it was nothing more than an indictment on my manipulative tactics, my attempts to veil my genocidal hate and wish to segregate others as reasoned argument and concern.

*Of course, the 'beating up black kids' was completely unremarkable to you, despite you knowing me pretty well. Despite you very recently having witnessed me challenge racism (which I had no reason to think you would ever see). Because there can be no explanation for my views except for hatred. That's it, isn't it? And that is why you don't want to hear an explanation, because why would you want to see it isn't, that it's founded in reality? Why would you - trademarked as a strong, outspoken feminist and irrepressible 'nasty woman' - choose to understand what I'm saying and run the risk of opening those brave, wide eyes to what is everywhere? When you yourself are abusing me now, fully aware of the power of the term TERF and how it enables unrelenting pile-ons, misogyny and threats.

This was clearly getting at you for a while, and I wish you'd taken me up on that offer to talk, though I understand why you didn't. You and every other friend who has denounced me as a TERF has exited via the exact same door: by public call out, waiting for the prime moment for theatrical support from onlookers, or slinking off in the aftermath of someone else's spectacle. None of you ever engage with any specific point; just make hackneyed, condemnatory accusations and assert your moral superiority.

I think this is why we have TERF block lists, a 'no debate' culture. Cut us off like a cancer - never, ever take up the chance to speak privately - repeat the hail Mary of 'trans people exist' as if it rids my views from every cell of your better being. You're the Thatcher government of negotiation, but without even the backstage arbitration. Just an impermeable sphere of closed ranks and hostility.

You chose to call me a bigot and renounce me with dramatic timing, in a foot-long screed, on a public post on Facebook. I'd said something pretty anodyne; that medical ethics had been sleeping through the surge in unscrupulous surgeons who advertise mastectomy as a miracle fix on Instagram to teenagers, using teenage clients as props, in a way we would deplore if they were breast implants. The conversation evolved with other people, we discussed this glowing, sanitised front page depiction of brave trans kids. I was concerned about the massive increase in kids coming out as trans and that puberty blockers were still being portrayed as a sensible, reversible treatment without major side effect.

You saw a trans woman launch into a tirade against me, and then screenshot my profile picture to compare to theirs, saying I was ugly and mannish and they hope I too can pass one day. Then you struck.

"I'm done with you now. After all the times I have tried to show you how harmful this is, you, nonetheless, continue to use damaging misinformation, lies and prejudice against one of the most marginalised groups in our society. I see you repeat the same bigoted, transphobic lines, your refrain is as repetitive as it is telling - you are being abused by sexists, people irrationally accuse you of hate. But still, here you are, furthering the oppression of trans and gender non-conforming folk with constant gaslighting, dangerous tropes and harmful talking points. You are toxic and unforgivably cruel. And let's be clear, you are no victim, you are the perpetrator. If people respond with anger you have anyone to blame but yourself'. 

Then you went about putting those little love emojis on every comment of the trans woman calling me ugly and blokey compared to their better woman-ing - which was delusional - but I don't want to get into this anti-feminist idiocy or show my profile picture here, so believe it or don't.

I didn't see it at first, as several other people had joined in on the thread and you had written my name in full on another subthread, without tagging me. I suspect some of the others joining in were your friends - sure I'd spoken to one before.

When I did see it, maybe 12 hours had passed. I thought back to the threats of rape and kerb-stomping, the misogyny and 'bitch'es and a pang of hurt, anxiety and anger shot through my chest. I felt like I'd been winded, my hands shook. I guess I then slipped into my necessary, protective creation - my character mode: unemotional and focused. Wanting to get to the point. I always think about what made me, pre-peaking, feel empowered to think outside of the prescribed lines and feel ok with my opinion and beliefs, and it was seeing these rows; the barrage of shit and bad faith arguments thrown at women who were being rational. Seeing them ridiculed by sexist idiots who missed every point and entered into a frenzy of 10 minute hate. I always think back to that because I remember how gutting, scary and alienating it was to realise the popular side I'd automatically stood with was talking shit, and the 'bad guys' in fact had won the argument and not shown any of the hate they'd been accused of.                                      Also, I just wanted to know what exactly I had done.

I said I was sad you'd chosen this place to air your grievances - but whatever - where had I been abusive, toxic, transphobic? Who had I gaslit? Had you seen the shit that had just been levelled at me? Where had I got close to anything resembling what you were accusing me of?

It was the best part of a day before you responded. In that time you'd had access to my profile, as neither of us had un-friended the other. 

"I'm not even the target of your nasty campaign and yet you're hurting me. Are you even listening to what I am telling you? Does any of this penetrate your skull? Why are you doing this? You just can't let trans people be, always chipping away at their validity and dignity'

I asked you, again, where had I been abusive or transphobic or hateful? You didn't respond, and a few hours later I removed you from my friends list but I didn't block you. The trans woman and the new pack of dog-pilers put their little hearts on your comments, joined in on yet another subthread about how my behaviour must have been so hard for you and well done on being an amazing ally. 

Of fucking course you want your bubble of harmonious camaraderie with its synchronised outrage and mutual preening. It must feel great, but I guess the troubling spectre of cognitive dissonance is an ever-looming, existential threat to your group survival. It's kind of irrelevant how weak the defence is, it's like having a fake CCTV camera with a solar powered LED light - it might not work, but it's still better than nothing and should scare people off. None of these arguments are arguments, you haven't read the literature you post instead of responding with your own words. It's not a difference of opinion, it's a defensive mechanism that only becomes more desperate and angry the more it's tested. There's no integrity to any of it.

I am always careful with my words, especially online. I never 'misgender', although I might awkwardly skip around pronouns sometimes. And I think I take up prejudicial comments pretty even-handedly. If anyone ever uses a slur like 'tranny' I call them out. If anyone makes derogatory jokes or cruel remarks I call them out. I'm sure you're convinced this is entirely a game but it genuinely does bother me. I guess the part that is a game is I don't want it made easier to depict my opinion as based on prejudice and revulsion, I want that very clear. I am careful to make actual arguments and not use ad homs or strawmen because there's so much stuff I need to talk about. I know in the past I've been unnecessarily abrasive and bellicose and I've grown up a bit. I actually care, for other people as well as for myself and mine. I do not want bigoted bastards to be aligned with me. I don't want to harm anyone.

I also know I'm not perfect - of course. When I'm defending myself against allegations of bigotry and feeling attacked, that is the exact time those seeds of prejudice can begin to germinate. I don't want to be an arsehole. I still read things I disagree with, everyday, and I try to manage my internal defences. If I've said or done something that harms people - I want to know. How many times have I said so? But you won't get through to me with nebulous indictment that's then retracted or re-positioned if I ask if it's aimed at me. You won't get through to me by trying shame-inducing language when I'm begging you for the detail and example. It just makes me think you're chatting shit.

If I was you, I'd have given examples. If I knew someone who was perpetuating harmful rhetoric against vulnerable people, and that person was within reach - i.e. not reacting with censorious fury, but asking for me to illustrate how and where, I'd be absolutely fucking sure to provide it. I'd have them already in my head (certainly wouldn't go on the assault without them) and if I didn't, but I still could look through their profile and screenshot everything they'd said that demonstrated it, I'd do that. I'd spell it out and try to do so in a way which actually got through to them, not orchestrate a theatrical flounce to the applause of others. How do you change people's minds? How do you challenge someone who's views otherwise align with your own on racism, homophobia, environmental issues, most political arguments? Did you want to change my mind, and stop me from hurting people, or just dramatically disown me with the benefit of a studio audience and prompted cheers? 

It all seems very contrived to me. A desperate act trying to provoke my vitriol so you could walk away certain I was in the wrong, full of hatred. Truth is you couldn't find an example, and my asking for it made that cognitive dissonance even more urgent to quell.

So, this, I theorise, is why you are desperate to barricade my voice out of your synthetic feminism, activism and social justice. It's as welcome an interjection of realism as the ringing of an alarm after a sleepless night. Let's just get back in the group-isolation tank and reassure ourselves, eh?

If you really believe you are right, leaning on an argument which is then shown to be fallacious isn't going to change your mind. If I argued that conversion therapy is wrong and it turned out a 'fact' of its consequences I'd used was in fact bullshit, I wouldn't concede that actually, no, it must be ok. So I understand the futility of dismantling the myths because you're not meant to be arguing this based on fact and matter, you're supposed to be arguing this because it's an ethical imperative - your moral duty, expectations you must fulfil to be worthwhile. This is about faith. Which is why you mustn't be led astray or fraternise with heretics. You must stay a pure, evangelical and devout member of the flock.

But I wish you could see that when one defensive, learnt-by-rote statement is dismantled, and then the next, and it's shown there are huge holes here, terrible omissions there, it might be that actually the whole thing is a house of cards. 

The fact you've responded like every other person I've fallen out with on this - there's honestly no difference in the routine, the evasion and the angry dismissal. And you need total certainty on things, even if it's from a rented costume hire. You need your chanting 'comrades', you lean on a shallow, reactionary, package-deal ideology of what makes a 'leftist', even if sometimes you show real insight and knowledge in other areas. It's cowardice multipled by the implicit assumption you will never be hurt if you're 'kind'. Which is a big mistake. And it certainly isn't brave, or independent, and least of all feminist. I don't know how long this madness will last, but I sense it won't be long. And when it crashes, we really will need to talk.


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